I got a call yesterday morning and on the other end of the phone was my 22yr daughter, screaming at the top of her lungs. I of course instantly thought something was wrong. After a minute of saying “I can’t understand you”, she slowed down and explained she had just received her letter of acceptance for the Graduate program at the University of Missouri. My heart rate began to slow to its normal pace and I gave her all my congratulations and of course, “I told you so”.
Later on in the day, I received a text message from that same daughter, thanking me for raising her up to become such a focused and determined women. She said because of that, it helped her to get where she is now and where she will be going in the future. I though to myself wow, I did that? Now, I also have a 20yr old son who is a junior in college. I was very surprised he went on to college as much as he disliked high school, but things have really changed for him and he too is excelling at his goals. I started thinking about my kids growing up and trying to remember exactly what I did or said to wind up so very blessed. Sure, I can remember some of the easy things we parents teach our kids like, “eat your vegetables”, “do your homework”, “respect your elders” and “don’t run with scissors in your hands. But I can truly say I don’t remember what I did or said to get them to the point where they are ready to take on this complicated and ever changing world we live in now, but it’s obvious, they remember and for that, I am truly grateful.
So, I guess what I am getting at is, for all of you parents, soon to be parents, and even grandparents that may not already know this, our children really do listen to us! They get it, they got it, even if we don’t remember exactly what we said or how we said it, they eventually do get it and one day if they haven’t all ready, they will remind you that you do make a difference in their lives and they are better for it. So be proud of yourselves and keep up the good work. And to think, it wasn’t even Mother’s Day!


